Thanks for the clarification. Maybe once I understand what you mean by this:
the "regular" list of posts [is there a name for that?].
... I'll be able to offer an alternative suggestion that might work better for your needs. :-)
Could you give me an example of a post that you have stickied, and then show me where it shows up now that you don't want it visible?
If you made a screenshot it might be helpful. Here's a guide on how to make a screenshot, if you're not sure: http://en.support.wordpress.com/make-a-screenshot/
You can upload the screenshot in your Media Library and then post a link so I can see it.
Thanks!